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How to Ruin a Good Bondage Session

I've been asking almost everyone I meet on line to write me a few paragraphs describing a memorable bondage experience. That's pretty much how Bound & Gagged got started, with people writing me descriptions of their first, best, worst and most memorable experiences, basically as responses to essay questions on a questionnaire I sent them when they applied for membership in the New York Bondage Club, which I'd founded back in 1984. At the time I also took advantage of bondage correspondences I myself and friends of mine had had with potential bondage partners and with bondage partners who'd moved away yet with whom we'd stayed friends (for those of you not old enough to remember, be advised that Bound & Gagged was born in that prehistoric time when people wrote what used to be called letters to each other).

NOTES ON THIS AND THAT

Just posted Chapter 9 of Bullies and Victims. Chapter 10 will be posted a week from today, March 27th, at 12.30 PM, Eastern time. I also just posted three stories, two from back issues of B&G , Scott’s Socks and Fantastic Fuck Suck Abduction, and one new one, Vehicle Bondage.

 

Vehicle Bondage was sent in by the writer of Fantastic Suck Fuck Abduction, who asked me if I couldn’t put up his earlier story, which he had lost. I said I’d be happy to do so, provided he sent me the completed version of Vehicle Bondage, which has an incredibly hot beginning, and a disappointing “To be continued…” conclusion. He said he wouldn’t be able to do that until after school ends in May, so being the firm and intransigent top that I am, I decided to post the first part of Vehicle Bondage anyway, since it does provide great fodder for jo fantasies.

After the Elections

The elections last month were as good as we had any right to expect, I suppose, and let’s hope that the legislative change next month leads to a real change in this country’s misguided direction. Unlikely but, like miracles, it could happen. Things are so bad now on so many fronts that even if the Democratic majority does show some spine and make many much needed changes, it’s anyone’s guess how much worse things will get before they get better, whatever better may mean. In Iraq, which we invaded for Cheney’s Halliburton and friends in March of 2003 and have now been in longer than we were in World War II, untold thousands of Iraqis have been killed and are getting killed as I write. The Iraqis are certainly far worse off today than they were under Saddam Hussein (who as anyone with a brain knew from the beginning played no part in the 9/11 attack). Far fewer of that country’s citizens died under Saddam’s monstrous watch than have died under ours, and the country’s public utilities worked. The first step in any solution, for us at least, should be to get out at once, since we’re not going to stop the civil war we caused, and the billions we’re spending in Iraq might be used to help stop some of the misery at home— what happened to New Orleans and especially its poor is the shame of this nation—and even prevent some of the terrorism that almost certainly will be coming our way sooner or later.

MAKING CHANGES

6/10/06

Wonderful Matthew, who used to manage The Outbound Press and has gone back to school to do graduate work, came over the other day and tweaked this site so that it is now possible to find bondage stories by title and different bondage videos by producer without having to scroll through every story or video every time. Hit the “refresh” button on this page as well as in the “Bondage Stories” section and the “Bondage Videos” section if you don’t see those changes right away. Matthew’s done with school for the summer, and though he has another job, he’ll have more free time to help me during the next few months and hopefully continue to make this site prettier to look at and easier to navigate. By the way, the “Bondage Stories” page replaces what used to be the “Requested Stories” page. Before too much more time goes by, I’ll probably incorporate the “New True Life Stories”page into the bondage stories page, since a story’s a story, whether originally published in Bound & Gagged or more recently on this site. The change has inspired me to post the third installment of “Slave to Two Masters.” I hadn’t reread the series since I received and published it in the online edition of B&G back in 2000, and I’d forgotten how hot it was and much it turned me on then. I’m also not sure if I even ever read the 4th and 5th installments before. They appeared in our February 2002 online edition. I just found them in a computer search and have no memory of ever having read them, but they’re very, very hot. If you’re into master/slave action and ultra-heavy bondage, you’ll never find a story better than this one. If you’re good and ask respectfully, I’ll post installments 4 and 5 before too much more time goes by. Not all readers are into the master/slave scene, of course, as a recent e-mail attests: