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Lost Bondage Stories - 10

The first part of this story was indeed published, in Issue No. 2, under the title "Bondage Party." Below that is a hitherto unpublished follow-up to that story which I found in the manuscript of lost stories. I have no idea why I never did print it, but I post it here, in case any of you out there should be throwing a bondage party and looking for ideas for party games.

Lost Bondage Stories - 9

 

Seems I posted Lost Stories 11 and 12 before posting 9 and 10. Apologies. Here's 9—a very interesting one in which the writer chose to write about himself as if he were writing a case history—at least for the first part. At a certain point, he lapsed, and started writing in the first person. I find both parts equally fascinating, some dangerous, and some very hot.

 

 

CASE HISTORY IN MALE BONDAGE

 

Age 5:

 

Earliest recollection of hard-on by subject. Situation created by playing cowboys and Indians and getting tied up. Scene took place with older brother and older male cousin, with the two binding hands of subject behind back and placing him on stool. Hard-on ensued.

 

Next recollections of hard-ons were in similar situations with friends while growing up. Subject's father was in the Navy, and often demonstrated rope tying and knots to subject and his brother. Subject can even recall father tying him up while in a playful mood to see if he could get out. He always did.

Jeff Dominates Damien

Jeff, who ran the mailroom in our last year of publication, was a remarkable top. You wouldn't have thought so to look at him, he was short, and  slight, with such an angelic face that you'd never have dreamed he had a nasty side. But he did, and a very nice one, too.

Lost Bondage Stories - 12

In my planned book, I juxtaposed this letter with the Letter from the Photographer. From all indications, it was clear the two writers had never met, which is kind of a shame, for both of them. As I wrote at the time, "It is also clear that there is a lot to be said for photography as a profession."

 

Brent Woods, our model, definitely had a boy next door quality about him, and could easily have modeled for great fashion photographers. Granted, the photos below weren't taken in a photographer's studio in an old studio in a deserted part of Paris, and when the story veers off into a dungeon later on, our photos of him don't go there, either. Which doesn't make them less hot.

 

BOY-NEXT-DOOR MODEL FINDS HIMSELF A MORE EXOTIC IMAGE

 

Two years ago I was living and working in Paris as a professional model. My looks, which are not the typical “generic” exotically handsome male, are extremely “All American, boy-next-door, clean-cut, healthy” in type. Therefore, I did little print work —lots of runway and commercial ads. Anyway, I was continually trying to build up my portfolio with more exotic photographs — a different look than my standard “boy in a plaid shirt or football jersey.”

 

I was given the name of a photographer who was considered extremely “exotic” — in fact, word around town was that Philippe Martin was an up-and-coming Helmut Newton. I went to see Philippe...

Jamie Lawless Bound on Sit-up Bench

Jamie was everyone's favorite model, the typical boy next door, sweet and cleancut with a nice, dirty streak. These photos were taken the first time he ever came to get tied up. After that, he came back again and again.

 

Lost Bondage Stories - 11

From 1984 through 1987, before it occurred to me to put them into a book or a magazine, I solicited letters of personal bondage experiences through the NYBC, urging people then, as I did with Bound & Gagged, to submit their contributions anonymously if they felt more comfortable that way. This writer was one of the few who actually did choose to protect his anonymity, which saddened me because I would have loved to write him back, begging him to tell me about more of his experiences. Not only was this devious "bondsman," as he called himself, almost certainly an extraordinary photographer whose private photo collection I'd have loved to get a peep at; he was also a very good writer.

 

Note: Okay, so the photos in this post weren't taken in a studio, the model wasn't posed on a lavender background and he didn't start off wearing his briefs. On the other hand, he is tied up with clothesline and he does get gagged with a bandanna, and when I went looking for photos to illustrate this story, I found these which I hadn't seen in a very long time, and I think they're very hot… So what the hell.

 

 

 

PHOTOGRAPHER TIES UP ACTORS IN EXCHANGE FOR FREE PORTFOLIOS

 

As a professional photographer, I get lots of requests from actors to do their portfolios. When I see one which appeals, I say I'll do it for free if I can take a series of bondage pix for a client. I haven’t been turned down yet. Of course, I’m the “private client.”

Deeter Skerri Hogtied - 2

When we left our hero yesterday, he was inhaling his Top's cup jock and wondering what to do next. Or not.

Deeter Skerri Hogtied

I don't think I've posted these photos yet, but even if I have, they're worth seeing again. Hogtied guys are always worth seeing. For my money, the hogtie position is the hottest of them all.

Lost Bondage Stories - 8

 

Coming upon this story was a delight, not simply because I only vaguely remembered it, but also because it's one of the very few I've ever received from a non-anglophone European describing early bondage experiences in his home country, in this case Italy.

 

BONDAGE ITALIAN STYLE

 

I grew up in Italy where my father was a State Policeman who wore Leather Breeches, Sam Brown Belt, High Black Boots, Black Shirt etc. I still remember as a small child him coming home from work and holding me in his lap and I never realized until later in life that the reason I am so turned on by leather is because as a child I was always turned on to the smell. He was also a very strict disciplinarian and would punish any infraction severely.

Greg Foster, Sleepsacked

Greg Foster was one of my favorite models. I've always been a sucker for guys in their twenties with prematurely gray hair. But there was also something so innocently sexy about Greg, looking so submissive and vulnerabile when I answered his knock on the door, that I fell in love with him at once as he stood in the doorway and only regretted he was someone else's slave. Fortunately for me, his Master was a generous man, and I had many opportunities to get together with Greg and tie him up and get to know him better. We became good friends.

I've shown one or two photos of Greg in a sleepsack before. Here's the whole series from that photo set.

Lost Bondage Stories - 7

 

Two stories here from the lost manuscript, both sent me, I believe, by the same writer. Readers may call my attention to the fact that you should not leave a person gagged all alone, and that was the kind of thing we reminded people about in Bound & Gagged, but this was before Bound & Gagged, and the question of this kind of bondage safety did not come up much then.

 

ENGLISHMAN SPENDS VACATION TIED UP IN NEW YORK

I received a phone call from a friend of a friend who had arrived in New York from England. His name was Steve and he planned to be in New York for a number of days before visiting other parts of the United States. We made arrangements to meet that evening.

 

Steve was in his early twenties, blond hair with brown eyes, slim bodied and quite good looking. We started the evening at a restaurant & then walked around. We ended it going to bed together. While in bed he made a few moves and said a few things that made me think he might be into bondage. I was sitting on his chest and was about to face fuck him (this was in the days before AIDS) when I quickly grabbed a piece of rope I had handy in a drawer next to the bed and tied his hands together & proceeded to fuck his mouth. I came down his throat within a few minutes, leaving him gasping & writhing.

Bound & Gagged Videos

The sale of Bound & Gagged DVDs was disappointing; I'd like to assume all of you who still use DVD machines have these videos already, while the rest of you, if you desire to see them, will get them through streaming. One way or another, the pathetic sales results prove there's no reason to pay to keep large quantities of DVDs in storage, so this morning we trashed over 20 cases containing hundreds of them. 

I did put aside 5 each of every trashed title, and you can buy them, together with all the others that I had in smaller quantities, for $39.95 apiece plus shipping and handling. If anyone wants to buy them, fine; if not, too bad for me. Click here to see the available titles. As they sell—if they sell—I'll reduce the remaining number until all are gone.