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Tom Wills in Bondage

The Summer Vacation story is longer than I remembered. I'll continue with it next week. In the meantime, and to give your eyes a break, here's some photos from the first shoot we did with Tom Wills, who had one of those cocks that almost never went down. Tom was a very desrable guy when he just walked into a room; he was completely irresistible when he was bound or caged or both.

What Have I Gotten Myself Into?

A reader writes:

 

I emailed a guy in Las Vegas before I went there for a business meeting. He seemed like a nice guy and invited me over to his place. After arriving at his house, he had me come in and we talked a bit. He told me to take my shirt, shoes and socks off and said “I think you are going to like this.” Before I knew it he was behind me and I was handcuffed. He started rubbing my cock through my jeans and took me into the basement dungeon. Seeing all the restraints on the walls got my cock hard. Next he cuffed me to the ceiling, then stripped me and cuffed my ankles to the floor. Naked and spreadeagle in a stranger’s place. What had I gotten myself into?

Holiday Inn Hell

Here's a bunch of photos from a gallery that appeared in Alternate Issue 12 (February, 2000). The photos were taken by Caitiff for the video he made for us, Midwest Men in Bondage, and the gallery was titled Holiday Inn Hell. Whether that was to suggest that the Holiday Inn was hell or that getting tied up at a Holiday Inn is hell I cannot say. That's certainly one ugly bedspread.

An Appreciation

 

A reader just sent me this wonderful appreciation:

You probably get this all the time ... but I'm a "straight" guy who loves (present tense!) Bound & Gagged magazine, as well as your blog. Call it a "guilty" pleasure, but seeing photos of men in bondage gives me an instant hard-on, as I picture myself in the models' situations. And knowing others feel the same way helped me realize everything parents, teachers and pastors told me was bullshit all along: a fellow CAN experiment with both females and males and still be a decent person. LOL

Gavin Spreadeagled

Gavin was, and hopefully still is, a real fun guy, one of those people who'd spend his life tied up if you'd let him. He was one of those guys who got hard as soon as you pulled out the first piece of rope, and never went soft after that, except when I was exhausted and he absolutely had to dress and go home. Here's a fun shoot I did with him when my bondage buddy Lew and I shared a playspace together on 19th Street.

Eric Tide on Bondage

After the last episode of his memoirs, Eric set himself to answering some of the questions asked by readers, but the next thing he knew he had written a whole essay about his feelings on bondage, without succeeding in giving direct answers to many of the questions at all. He does want to do that soon, and to answer any other questions you may want to ask him.

 

At first, he was unsure whether he wanted to continue writing about his bondage experiences. Fortunately, as of now, he tells me he intends to go on with these memoirs. I for one am delighted, and imagine many of you will be, too.

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Before I say anything else, let me say “thank you” to those who have commented on my memoirs, whether positive or negative. As Bob and I discussed when I first started posting over two years ago, it would be great to have a dialogue about bondage with the readers. I wish more of you would write Bob with your own thoughts and experiences, which would be helpful to us all.

Office Slave 5

The shipping department decided Office Slave was of no use to them as a package. They considered shipping him to the famous bondage artist Mr. Lee, but then Mr. Lee himself showed up at the office. He thanked us for the gift, took Office Slave into the studio, unwrapped him and rewrapped him in a number of ways for his own amusement, and ours. After a few hours, with stomachs rumbling, we left Office Slave to spend some time in silent contemplation while we all had lunch. As you will see for yourselves. Office Slave hated every minute of his ordeal.

Office Slave 4

In our business, packaging is considered skilled labor. The merchandise must be made secure, and kept harmless from too much breakage. So having taped and tied up Office Slave, it was time to bag him up and get him to the shipping department.

Office Slave 3

We thought we might use Office Slave in the shipping department, so began the lengthy process of packing him up.